You are not alone in your loneliness
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Being open and vulnerable with your loneliness, sadness and fear can help you find comfort and feel less alone, says writer and artist Jonny Sun. In an honest talk filled with his signature illustrations, Sun shares how telling stories about feeling like an outsider helped him tap into an unexpected community and find a tiny sliver of light in the darkness.
Being open and vulnerable with your loneliness, sadness and fear can help you find comfort and feel less alone, says writer and artist Jonny Sun. In an honest talk filled with his signature illustrations, Sun shares how telling stories about feeling like an outsider helped him tap into an unexpected community and find a tiny sliver of light in the darkness.
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About the speaker
Jonny Sun wears many hats, creating work across multiple fields and modes that speaks to the increasingly expansive society in which we live.
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Zeynep Tufekci | Yale University Press, 2018 | Book
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Judith Donath | Communities in Cyberspace, 1998 | Article
"Identity and Deception in the Virtual Community"
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Sherry Turkle | Simon & Schuster, 1997 | Book
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Lisa Eadicicco | TIME, 2017 | Article
"How the Internet Is Getting a Little Nicer, One Meme at a Time"
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Andre Brock | Journal of Broadcasting & Electronic Media, 2012 | Article
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Lisa Guernsey | New America, 2017 | Article
"Don’t Take Away Your Teen’s Phone"
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Eric Klinenberg | Slate, 2012 | Article
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