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Lo que aprendí de 100 días de rechazo

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Jia Jiang |

TEDxMtHood

• May 2015

Jia Jiang se aventura audazmente en un terreno que muchos de nosotros tememos: el rechazo. Buscó sentirse rechazado durante 100 días de muchas maneras; desde pedir prestado 100 dólares a un extraño, hasta pedir un suplemento de hamburguesa en un restaurante. Jiang se volvió insensible al sufrimiento y a la vergüenza que a menudo trae este dolor y, en el proceso, descubrió que el simple hecho de pedir lo que quieres puede abrir puertas allí donde creemos encontrar callejones sin salida.

Jia Jiang se aventura audazmente en un terreno que muchos de nosotros tememos: el rechazo. Buscó sentirse rechazado durante 100 días de muchas maneras; desde pedir prestado 100 dólares a un extraño, hasta pedir un suplemento de hamburguesa en un restaurante. Jiang se volvió insensible al sufrimiento y a la vergüenza que a menudo trae este dolor y, en el proceso, descubrió que el simple hecho de pedir lo que quieres puede abrir puertas allí donde creemos encontrar callejones sin salida.

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Jia Jiang

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