Why being respectful to your coworkers is good for business
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Looking to get ahead in your career? Start by being respectful to your coworkers, says leadership researcher Christine Porath. In this science-backed talk, she shares surprising insights about the costs of rudeness and shows how little acts of respect can boost your professional success -- and your company's bottom line.
Looking to get ahead in your career? Start by being respectful to your coworkers, says leadership researcher Christine Porath. In this science-backed talk, she shares surprising insights about the costs of rudeness and shows how little acts of respect can boost your professional success -- and your company's bottom line.
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Christine Porath helps organizations build thriving workplaces.
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Adam Grant | Penguin Books, 2014 | Book
Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success
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Amy Cuddy and colleagues argue that leaders would do much better to begin by connecting with people — establishing trust through warmth and understanding — rather than emphasizing their competence, strength or credentials. The article provides ideas for how to project warmth so that trust develops, which makes it much more likely that people really hear your message and become open to it.
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