3 lessons of revolutionary love in a time of rage
3,277,194 views | Valarie Kaur • TEDWomen 2017
What's the antidote to rising nationalism, polarization and hate? In this inspiring, poetic talk, Valarie Kaur asks us to reclaim love as a revolutionary act. As she journeys from the birthing room to tragic sites of bloodshed, Kaur shows us how the choice to love can be a force for justice.
What's the antidote to rising nationalism, polarization and hate? In this inspiring, poetic talk, Valarie Kaur asks us to reclaim love as a revolutionary act. As she journeys from the birthing room to tragic sites of bloodshed, Kaur shows us how the choice to love can be a force for justice.
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About the speaker
Valarie Kaur is a social justice activist, lawyer, filmmaker, innovator, mother and Sikh American thought leader who founded the Revolutionary Love Project -- a movement that envisions a world where love is a public ethic.
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All About Love: New Visions
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Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living
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Teachings of the Sikh Gurus: Selections from the Sikh Scriptures
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We Too Sing America
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Van Jones | Ballantine Books, 2017 | Book
Beyond the Messy Truth: How We Came Apart, How We Come Together
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This talk was presented at an official TED conference. TED's editors chose to feature it for you.
Follow Valarie. You can find Valarie on Twitter and Instagram at @valariekaur. Click here to follow her on Facebook.
Become a part of a movement of folks building beloved community where they are. Donate to support the work of the Revolutionary Love Project.