Susan Cain: Az introvertáltak ereje
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Susan Cain |
TED2012
• February 2012
Egy olyan kultúrában, ahol társaságinak, és eljárósnak lenni mindenek fölé van emelve, nagyon nehéz, sőt egyenesen szégyenletes is lehet introvertáltnak lenni. Susan Cain azonban amellett érvel ebben a lelkesítő beszédében, hogy az introvertáltak rendkívüli tehetségeket és képességeket jelentenek a világ számára, ami miatt bátorítani és ünnepelni kéne őket!
Egy olyan kultúrában, ahol társaságinak, és eljárósnak lenni mindenek fölé van emelve, nagyon nehéz, sőt egyenesen szégyenletes is lehet introvertáltnak lenni. Susan Cain azonban amellett érvel ebben a lelkesítő beszédében, hogy az introvertáltak rendkívüli tehetségeket és képességeket jelentenek a világ számára, ami miatt bátorítani és ünnepelni kéne őket!
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With her viral talk from TED2012 and her mega-bestseller "Quiet," Susan Cain urged society to cultivate space for the undervalued, indispensable introverts among us. Now, with her new bestseller "Bittersweet," she's back to explore the surprising lessons sorrow and longing teach us about creativity, connection and love.
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