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As mentiras que contamos às mulheres grávidas

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Sofia Jawed-Wessel |

TEDxOmaha

• October 2016

"Quando dizemos às mulheres que sexo durante a gravidez não vale o risco, o que dizemos é que seu prazer sexual não importa... que, na verdade, a mulher não importa", diz a sexóloga Sofia Jawed-Wessel. Nessa palestra reveladora, Jawed-Wessel explora nossas visões sobre gravidez e prazer para expor a relação entre mulheres, sexo e sistemas de poder.

"Quando dizemos às mulheres que sexo durante a gravidez não vale o risco, o que dizemos é que seu prazer sexual não importa... que, na verdade, a mulher não importa", diz a sexóloga Sofia Jawed-Wessel. Nessa palestra reveladora, Jawed-Wessel explora nossas visões sobre gravidez e prazer para expor a relação entre mulheres, sexo e sistemas de poder.

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Sofia Jawed-Wessel

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Sofia Jawed-Wessel's teachings utilize a sex-positive and pleasure-inclusive approach to providing medically accurate, comprehensive sexuality education.

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Jawed-Wessel, S., Herbenick, D., Schick, V. (in press). Body image and self-consciousness during sexual and physical intimacy among first-time mothers. Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy. DOI: 10.1080/0092623X.2016.1212443

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Jawed-Wessel, S. & Sevick, E. (in press). Sexual behaviors during pregnancy and after childbirth. Annual Review of Sex Research.

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Jawed-Wessel, S., Schick, V., Herbenick, D., Fortenberry, D., Cattelona, G., Reece, M. (2016). Development and validation of the Sex during Pregnancy Scales. Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, 42, 8: 681-701. DOI: 10.1080/0092623X.2015.1113587

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Jawed-Wessel, S., Herbenick, D., Schick, V. (2013). The Sexual Function Questionnaire’s Medical Impact Scale (SFQ-MIS): Validation among a sample of first-time mothers. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10:2715-2722. DOI: 10.1111/jsm.1230730192-2/abstract)

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