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How changing your story can change your life

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Lori Gottlieb |

TED@DuPont

• September 2019

Stories help you make sense of your life -- but when these narratives are incomplete or misleading, they can keep you stuck instead of providing clarity. In an actionable talk, psychotherapist and advice columnist Lori Gottlieb shows how to break free from the stories you've been telling yourself by becoming your own editor and rewriting your narrative from a different point of view.

Stories help you make sense of your life -- but when these narratives are incomplete or misleading, they can keep you stuck instead of providing clarity. In an actionable talk, psychotherapist and advice columnist Lori Gottlieb shows how to break free from the stories you've been telling yourself by becoming your own editor and rewriting your narrative from a different point of view.

Get involved with Bring Change to Mind, a mental health advocacy organization focused on ending the stigma and discrimination surrounding mental illness.

About the speaker

Lori Gottlieb

Psychotherapist, author

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Get involved with Bring Change to Mind, a mental health advocacy organization focused on ending the stigma and discrimination surrounding mental illness.