物事の「良し悪し」は思い込みに過ぎない
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ヘザー・ラニエの娘フィオナは、ウォルフ・ヒルシュホーン症候群という遺伝子異常による先天性疾患を患っているため、発達に遅れがあります。でも彼女は、悲劇のヒロインだとか、天使のように可憐だとか、似たような状況の子供たちに向けられるステレオタイプには当てはまりません。まれな症状の女の子を育てるという美しくも複雑で、喜びに溢れていながらも困難な道のりを語るこのトークで、ラニエは人生にとって何が「良い」もので、何が「悪い」ものかという私たちの思い込みに疑問を呈します。普通ではないと思われる状況を克服することに囚われるのではなく、あるがままの人生をそのまま受け入れるべきだ、と彼女は呼びかけます。
ヘザー・ラニエの娘フィオナは、ウォルフ・ヒルシュホーン症候群という遺伝子異常による先天性疾患を患っているため、発達に遅れがあります。でも彼女は、悲劇のヒロインだとか、天使のように可憐だとか、似たような状況の子供たちに向けられるステレオタイプには当てはまりません。まれな症状の女の子を育てるという美しくも複雑で、喜びに溢れていながらも困難な道のりを語るこのトークで、ラニエは人生にとって何が「良い」もので、何が「悪い」ものかという私たちの思い込みに疑問を呈します。普通ではないと思われる状況を克服することに囚われるのではなく、あるがままの人生をそのまま受け入れるべきだ、と彼女は呼びかけます。
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