The routines, rituals and boundaries we need in stressful times
1,574,824 views | Esther Perel • TED Salon: DWEN
How do you effectively regulate stress? Therapist Esther Perel discusses the importance of creating routines, rituals and boundaries to deal with pandemic-related loss and uncertainty -- both at home and at work -- and offers some practical tools and techniques to help you regain your sense of self. (This conversation, hosted by TED's Helen Walters, was recorded February 2021.)
How do you effectively regulate stress? Therapist Esther Perel discusses the importance of creating routines, rituals and boundaries to deal with pandemic-related loss and uncertainty -- both at home and at work -- and offers some practical tools and techniques to help you regain your sense of self. (This conversation, hosted by TED's Helen Walters, was recorded February 2021.)
This talk was presented at a TED Salon event given in partnership with DWEN. TED's editors chose to feature it for you.
Read more about TED Salons.Learn more about relational dynamics at work by listening to Esther Perel's podcast How's Work?
About the speakers
Through her podcasts "Where Should We Begin?" and "How's Work?," psychotherapist Esther Perel is changing the conversation on the way we communicate, connect and conflict in our relationships -- at home and at work.
Helen Walters is the head of curation at TED, where she has the privilege of overseeing the work of an absurdly talented group of specialist curators and deep thinkers to bring the very sharpest minds and ideas to the TED stage.
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About TED Salon
TED Salons welcome an intimate audience for an afternoon or evening of highly-curated TED Talks revolving around a globally relevant theme. A condensed version of a TED flagship conference, they are distinct in their brevity, opportunities for conversation, and heightened interaction between the speaker and audience.
This talk was presented at a TED Salon event given in partnership with DWEN. TED's editors chose to feature it for you.
Read more about TED Salons.Learn more about relational dynamics at work by listening to Esther Perel's podcast How's Work?