Sex educator Emily Nagoski breaks down one of the most dangerous myths about sex and introduces us to the science behind arousal nonconcordance: when there's a disconnect between physical response and the experience of pleasure and desire. Talking about such intimate, private moments can feel awkward or difficult, yet in this straightforward talk Nagoski urges all of us to share this crucial information with someone -- judges, lawyers, partners, kids. "With every brave conversation we have, we make the world that little bit better," says Nagoski. (This talk contains mature content.)

Emily Nagoski: The truth about unwanted arousal

The truth about unwanted arousal

Understanding genital response as separate from consent can illuminate discussions on sexual assault and consent clarity.

Open dialogues about arousal nonconcordance empower survivors, debunk myths, and foster a culture of consent and understanding.

Understanding arousal nonconcordance: Genital response doesn't predict sexual desire or pleasure, crucial for consent clarity.