睡前三件事：培養孩子的正向人格3 Things Before Bed: Nurturing Your Child's Positive Personality
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Henry Lo 羅寶鴻 |
TEDxTaipei
• October 2021
⼆⼗世紀有名的⼼理學家阿德勒說，如果要讓孩⼦在成長過程裡養成他未來擁有「正向的⼈格」，最重要的就是我們需要保有孩⼦內⼼的「歸屬感」與「價值感」。然而成⼈也是如此，終其⼀⽣我們內⼼都渴望著被愛、被接納、有價值、有意義的⽣命。
寶鴻在與孩子相處的過程中發現「具體事實描述」加上「真誠正⾯肯定」將能改善⼀個⼈的偏差或讓⼀個⼈更正向，使自己或他人的⼼與內在本有的光明產生連結，而這個由內在所發出的光明，也將能溫暖更多的人心。
Adler, the famous second-century philosopher, said that if children are to grow up with a "positive personality" in the future, it is important that we retain a sense of belonging and value in the child's heart. However, the same is also true for adults. Throughout our lives, our hearts yearn to be loved, accepted, valued, to lead a meaningful life.In the process of working with children, Dr. Henry Lo has found that "concrete descriptions" combined with "sincere and positive affirmations" can improve our errors or make us feel more positive. When our own or another's heart is connected to the light that is within, this inner light will continue to warm more hearts.