Veronica Michaelides Posted over 3 years ago LIVE CHAT With Damon Horowitz: When have you realized that you were wrong about what you once thought was right? June 8, 2011, 5-6PM EDT There was this moment when I wanted to react negatively towards a friend who was not very nice towards me at the time. I felt that the only thing there was to do was to actually be nice to her. Nicer than I ever was towards her before. Sounds generic but at that moment I realized that, falling back to my comfortable response to people who have problematic behavior and letting them be until they "feel better" or put a wall up etc. this time I made a conscious choice to give something more than I ever did back to her. I learned that taking that extra step to go beyond protecting my boundaries and into taking action was very dynamic and beneficial.