esther kim Posted 10 months ago Do we underestimate the importance of the 20-something years? Live Q&A with TED speaker Meg Jay, Wednesday at 3pm Eastern I actually tried to live by the what you spoke about in my 20's. But the people I encountered were not in the same mindset. They definitely wanted to be in the YOLO mindset. They didn't want to invest or commit to anything long term or sustaining. I was alone and single and ended up getting rejected, dejected in all my 20's. I'm 29 now. How do you deal with being 30 now. Where do I turn to for like minded people? What am I suppose to do now? Where are my resources?