Claire Williams Posted about 2 years ago What are 5 things you have learned that has completely changed your life? 1. I learned as a therapist to assume nothing; we all experience life differently, so what I may perceive as a problem is not necessarily a problem for someone else. You need to get out of your own way to be a real listener. 2. You can't want more for a person than they want for themselves. 3. One thing Buckminster Fuller said we need to learn from children is to remember to ask the big questions. This is, I think, essential in maintaining a sense of wonder. 4. Perspective can save your life. 5. What's said can't be unsaid.