Hanif Safdari Posted over 1 year ago What are the alternatives to helping other people? i love this statement written by Robert Winner, "how can you expect others to like you if you do not like yourself." is very profound to ones who fails to like themselves. Thats why a failed person seeks the easy formula for life so that everything works perfect for them. I am in such trouble. life seems easy but it needs some rules to work better for us. its hard to understand for such kind of people who knows most of things but they make mistake, and keep making mistake.