manish khatri

Bikaner (Rajasthan), India

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200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
What is the best approach for self studying?
Hi Jejomar! The best teacher for you is you, yourself. This is what we call self study. What is so good about self study is that the student and teacher are same so there is not any communication gap even in thoughts. Secondly, Teaching and Learning goes on simultaneously. Student do not spent extra hours to think and learn what teacher taught. Bad thing is that teacher may not understand the subjects well so is unable to teach properly. Also student is always doubtful about authenticity of teacher and seeks for a evidence/certificate for his/her understanding. In my view, the best effective method for self study is after understanding the subject clearly from a teacher. We call it revision. The revision must be in such a manner that the student teach himself as teacher and understand it again. However, nothing can compete the way of learning when student self discover the answer, understand it, and thereafter confirm the authenticity of his understanding from other teachers. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
What is not relative in this world? Is there something at all?
Hi Anwesh ! Relative means, which is bound to be affected in proportion to something else and this 'something else' may be more than one, i mean, one thing may be relative to many other things. By observing a relative thing, we also can conclude, it is always mutable. Therefor relative means which is mutable or revulsive. Universe is not constant and is always transforming. Everything, which is relative, changes. One more thing is also important to mention here. When two things are relative inside a particular domain; that particular domain is always non relative with both of them. However, that domain is also relative to other domain and affect each other withing other bigger domain (which is also non relative for smaller domains). But, Ultimately, the one (the ultimate domain) must be absolute, not affected, unchangeable and non relative; otherwise change is not possible inside. I have to give a mundane example or otherwise its impossible to understand and explain. When you see movie. The screen can be consider as a bigger domain whereas scenes are smaller domain, relative domains. Screen never changes and is not relative to the scenes. When the scenes stops, projector stops, suddenly the absolute screen is there. Another example is a wheel along with axle. Axle remain absolute and never moves but wheel. The movement of axle from one location to another is because of wheel. Axle moves in relative to us, but not to wheel. The movement of axle and wheel happening in same domain. If an ant travel from circumference of the wheel to the axle, it will always take same time whether wheel is moving or not. Even Time is relative to a non relative domain (timeless). Time is happening in a particular domain, but there is an absolute 'thing' which is unrelated and eternal. You too have something non relative 'absolute thing' inside you, which never changes, always unaffected. That's why you never feel any change from inside even with aging. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
Is it really ONLY success that we should strive for?
Hi Swati ! Why man want success? Answer is very simple- To be happy. When one think that his/her happiness lies only in achieving so and so, the striving begins. But the adversity is that there is not any final destination of success to satisfy you, to make you happy. Every time man achieve a goal, founds it as a milestone. Everyone wants to be successful in all fields of life. Life is multidimensional. Have not we seen the people success in one field, falls back in another. How many millionaire or famous people are happy? Why we associate success with fame or money only? Why not we consider a man successful who is happy? Aren't we want success for happiness? I am not against the spirit to succeed, But it should be in all dimensions. One should also think to be successful in relations, in love, in friendship.. after all life is this, others are just secondary things, just tools for a happy life. No one force anybody to follow them, to make them idol. Every successful man make his/her own path and do not believe in the ready made path to follow. But, people wants short cut to be successful, instead of making new path they find convenient way to follow ready made paths, so they make them idol. Idol should be made for guidance not to copy or follow. An idol can give this much information that if he cloud succeed so why can't you. But people follow and lose their true self. A pursuant person loses all potentiality to be a unique successor, to be a paragon, to be an idol. It's true, only efforts and striving aren't enough for success. So, according to me the true road towards success is when - 1) Happiness is not tide with the goal of success, and 2) One also take care the happiness of surrounding people, while journey towards the success. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
what causes collapse of quantum superposition?
Hi Timo ! No! consciousness is nothing to do anything with this. And what so special about consciousness is that it is not special at all. Also we can not define it or explain it bcoz we (humans) do not have anything in our world to relate it, thus hard to understand it. All our definitions belongs to known or experienced things. For example - Flower: the seed-bearing part of a plant, consisting of reproductive organs (stamens and carpels) that are typically surrounded by a brightly colored corolla (petals) and a green calyx (sepals). Timo, do you think one unknown person can know all about flower by knowing this definition. No matter how hard you try to explain about flower, the soul or spirit will always be unexplained. Now what if, you have to explain only the soul or spirit of the flower ! However, I have found a very similar system in our world to relate and explain it, A 'Computer System'. Think electricity as consciousness of the computer system and all digits, alphabets or special characters are alive figures. These figures have brain to think their own. They found themselves existing and alive, living in folders and files. They are indulge in searching of truth. They are curious to know about them, about colors, about folders and everything happening in their world. Some smart figures (scientists) found that they are pixels. Some other have searched the DNA (0,1). How would they found the Truth, The Consciousness, timo? You asked what is special about consciousness? I must say, the special or strange thing is the existence of figures, their life, their sensors, their brain,... but not consciousness.
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
Define beauty.
wow !!! well said johnny .. Amazing ! "...Beauty is the Princess that needs to be rescued from the faraway castle, guarded by the two-headed beast "~ Johnny Atman You Beautifully said about Beauty... I appreciate :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
what causes collapse of quantum superposition?
Hi Laura :) You cause the collapse of quantum superposition! Quantum physics - 'Consciousness is trying to figure out Super consciousness'. You, as an observer, with brain, are the reason. Let me explain this with the help of an example. How do u see? Some reflected photons travels to your eye sensors and received information are passed to your brain in a very specific format which mind interprets you as light and color. Isn't it strange!, your brain never see the light, always remains in dark but yet it decodes the information as light. Now the doubt of uncertainty raises- WHAT IF OUR BRAIN IS INTERPRETING WRONG? Not only eyes, every other sensor thru which we know our world, are just receptors of different wave(length)/particles and brain has fixed format to decode particular information. Thus no one can really reach to the reality this way (at least using sensors). The Particular quantum state is the 'interpretation of our brain'. I dont know how but scientist must observe the state of brain of the observer instead of the object. It is the limitation of our Brain, where information collapses to either this or that. 'Quantum Entanglement' can also be answered by this. Observer’s brain can think faster than speed of light. Knowing the state of other entangled quantum causes collapse. I have an example in my support - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spinning_Dancer In this animation the information of spinning girl (clock/anticlockwise), suddenly collapse in our brain after continuous gazing, and becomes (anticlock/clockwise) Ans 1: Distance/time is the matter of brain, not consciousness. So it does happen in real time. Ans 2: Wave is actually the shifting of energy from particle to particle. 'Probabilistic state of superposition' theory is the outcome of 'Puzzled Brain'. Wave exists as a whole and we cant find it in a particle (by observing). That's why quantum slit experiment fails. So, Observing the observe may solve the problem of Quantum physics. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
What do you think about ignoring? are we really ignoring something, or we just do in the defense?
Hi Jelena ! I believe, Ignoring is 'To stop giving your attention to something/someone, which (you think) is useless or unimportant or harmless to you. Ignoring happens in two ways, knowingly and unknowingly. When we ignorantly ignore something it becomes natural behavior of us (like a fly flies in front of your eyes), but it is ambivalent when we intentionally force ourselves to ignore (like when you 'try to' ignore your ex-lover); Such act becomes unnatural bcoz we split into two parts from inside. Being ignorant of something is quite natural, however we can use it as a defense mechanism against insecurities or dissatisfaction but then it is intentionally, thus unnatural or ambivalent. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
how to be a good listener?
Hi Greg :) I am agree with Joseph Thomas! A good listener is who don't let his/her mind interfere while listening. Mind is always judgmental. It is full of predetermined/preoccupied decisions you have made in your life, that is why mind continuously relate every coming information to deny or accept in between listening. When a information comes to you, it should be welcomed as a stranger and there is no need to either take the side of a stranger or going against it. Mind should be kept aside in listening. Have you ever thought Greg, people listening are better when they are alone and they listen music or watch tv, that's why TV commercials are so successful. But why it happens? Because, now listener knows, nobody is there in front of them to whom they can nod to show the acceptance or to nonacceptance, so they becomes good receptors of coming information. Good Listening is not a guarantee of a good life. Yaa but undoubtedly, it opens some doors in future for your life. It helps to develop a good foresight inside you. :)
200318
manish khatri
Posted 10 months ago
What do you think of loving your enemy instead of hatred and taking a revenge?
Hi Yoka :) Who is an enemy Yoka? Is the one who hates us? But we should also see the other side of it; don’t we hate him/her too? Aren’t we also an enemy for our enemy? If not, then why we consider him/her as our 'enemy' and if yes, then how would we be able to love my enemy? You asked - 'what are the best ways to fight?' At one side you want to love your enemy and the other side you want to fight! What kind of love is this? Do you want to love your enemy, just to conquer! Do you want to use love as a weapon against your enemy? Fighting, means going against of something. If life gives us options to choose one, we must always choose peaceful one. The very existence of an enemy is the proof that your heart wasn't having love for him/her in the past. That’s why your enemy is here. If you were not able to give your love in past (when enemy wasn’t), then how will you do this now! In such case, possibilities are you both will ditch each other again in the name of love. 'Forgetting is the best way of forgiveness’ Who forgives? Why one forgives other one? The only reason i can see that 'the someone' is guilty in forgiver eyes! It has been accepted in forgiver’s mind that someone is an offender, thus the seed of hatred is sown, otherwise where the need to act like a forgiver. One should be conscious of self enough to see when the seed of 'hate' starts sprouting inside. However, this isn't meaning that you can't start loving your enemies now, from today. It’s never late for something good. But Yoka, in my opinion, the idea of '...loving your enemy...' is a mistake. Because the focus is still on 'Enemy'. If you really want to love your enemy, in true sense, the thoughts like ‘I am loving my enemy’ or ‘I am a forgiver’ must root out first. This is right way. When we slap a child, child reacts, but no any hate or forgiveness emerges within child. And after some time, child starts playing with us again, as nothing was happened ... :)