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zeng peifeng
Posted over 2 years ago
How can we help to prevent bullying?
i have no reason to object that some bad impact will appear if let it happen, but i don't have any reasons to support that no negetive impact will appear if prevent it happening. I have emphasized for times that if we don't let them experience the delimma, it will be impossible for them to learn how to protect themselves. then, them must face similar delimma in the future.
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zeng peifeng
Posted over 2 years ago
How can we help to prevent bullying?
Encouragemeng means we expect such situation, while my point is not to expect but to ignore them, that is neither encouragement nor ban. the bully bullies not only because they can perceive those who are less strong in themselves but becsuse those who are bullied are not strong enough. then, how to ptomote them? pressure works. Giving them a push, they have no choice but to strengthen themselves, which accounts for my suggstion to let it happen. in additon, about your another point that that cycle is not apropriate, i have some different views. we human get evolved through competition. without fierce fight, we can not evolve into what we are now. to make sure our progress, we need competiton and selection. from this perspective, bullying is not so unbearable as we usually think.
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zeng peifeng
Posted over 2 years ago
How can we help to prevent bullying?
But, is it a good choice that let the weak lacks the ability to protect themselves verbally? it is similar that kids are urged to study hard in their youth in order to be more excellent in the future. Can we say it wrong to urge kids study hard because they dislike studying?
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zeng peifeng
Posted over 2 years ago
How can we help to prevent bullying?
yeah, bullying is not a throughgoing bad phenomenon. it can be regarded as an natural selection, where the weak get to learn how to defend them verbally. Without bullying, the weak will always be the weak and has no access to aquire the skill of defend them in mouth rather tham hand.