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• A comment on Conversation: When is it time to quit? And how does one know?

  Apr 2 2013: Not necessary to quit. If you quit, you failed. That's it

• A comment on Conversation: How can you save a person who does not want to be saved or does not see the need to be saved?

  Mar 26 2013: Life is a like a sea wave with up's and down's but the wave pattern never changes.
  
  People with problems end up in deadlock situation where they think only about the same problem again and again. Friend is a powerful relationship who are flexible when you are angry and when you are happy so you friends and relatives can bring in change in life. Moreover it is important to earn more people in life so that you can rest in their arms during your problematic period. But we will realize only after the problem arises.
  
  1. Keep talking to the person that he is right always. 2. Be with him/her for some days. 3. Take him to meet very high profile people around the city. 4. Keep telling about his future goals and where you see him in life. 5. If he is not married then tell about family life and if problem is his family life then tell him about the love for kids. 6. Create diversion in life.

• A comment on Conversation: Divorce should be cheap and accessible.

  Mar 26 2013: Divorce word should be removed from dictionary. When people can still love and adjust themselves for their pet. why not for a living human?
  
  Divorce is not getting relieved from pain but it is like "never realizing what your partner expects". Comforting words are like blessing and we should use them when were required.
  
  For people who don't care about others pain should never look for a partner. Let them live single and enjoy freedom of choice. I am against DIVORCE and its definitions.

• A comment on Conversation: How can we help to prevent bullying?

  Mar 18 2013: There is a good quote which I would like to mention here - If thieves realize to stop only then robbery will end.
  
  Similarly there is possessiveness in all humans, we can never change it but can control it but not always...

• A comment on Conversation: Are science & spirituality one and the same?

  Mar 14 2013: Spiritual is feeling which is not accepted by all.
  Science is acceptance by a group of experts.

• A comment on Conversation: Why Would God Allow a Tragedy?

  Mar 13 2013: A small story: An old man aged 80 years is crying in a temple in front of God idol. Few people around him asked for reason. He took them to his home where there a 45 year old man lying in a bed all these 45 years. He pointed at him and told he is my son. All these years I took good care of him and now I am afraid that who will take care of him after his death. Others looked at the old man and asked: "Why did you carry this burden all these years?". The old man replied: In this whole world GOD identified me as a good care taker and protector of such a child so I was fulfilling GOD's wish.
  
  In the above story, you can see how a person shows his respect to GOD and how he accepts HIS actions. One thing we do for all living beings(not only humans): "Pray for everyone".

• A comment on Conversation: What is the most important thing you've learned on your own?

  Mar 13 2013: Never do shopping without planning...
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  A comment on Conversation: What do you think is the future of learning?

  Mar 8 2013: Learning is person dependent. No technology can pour knowledge directly into human brain. However only tool sets/medium may change.

• A comment on Conversation: If you suddenly lost all of your sources of income, including your job, would you consider yourself poor?

  Mar 8 2013: Everyone may advise different solutions but reality in such situation is more painful. Values we have earned in our life will help us to lead a rich life and a notable death.
  
  There are more poor people than rich people(in terms of income) so bad plan on income = a very bad life.

• A comment on Conversation: Is it possible to have an entirely original thought?

  Mar 8 2013: Yes, you can when you attain "Enlightenment". The color palette has a range and we see within that range. You cannot name a color which you haven't seen/thought so let's stay with the world because there are millions of color combinations...