Thaddeus Villella Posted almost 2 years ago Can one only fall in love once? I have heard love defined as being willing to die for someone. There are many people in my life that I am willing to do that for and many I don't know as well. In my experience, Love is also a choice, I can choose to love or not to love. Your thinking is grand and wonderful and I believe in trying to have only one romantic relationship in life. The love that most talk of when talking about romantic love is part lust, part crazy, part Love I defined and big part of truly being loved back. Seek love, it is worth finding, test love, it takes time to be sure that your love is returned. Stick to it the best you can, Love is worth fighting for and waiting for.