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People, Personal Potential, Friendship, Truth, Personal development, Self fulfillment,

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"You are the golden key to every door that has ever been closed. Know this and be yourself." -Marvin

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• A reply on Conversation: How do you do that? I'm curious to know how you get motivated to reach your goals and get results.

  Apr 29 2012: Hi Salim,
  
  For me, when working with a client, it's always a very individual approach for every person that I sit in the room with.
  
  Firstly it's up to me to hold the space to enable the elicitation of the client's potential, which more often than not emerges from a place within them that offers insight and answers to artful questioning directed from a space of complete respect. That's to say that I hold a vision, without bounds, without form, just one of pure potential and respect: I simply know that I have a person in front of me who can, without a doubt, do or be whatever they desire and dream of. I completely trust and believe in them and that's where it begins - without form, just essence... the essence of excellence. That's my duty.
  
  I never motivate or inspire, I merely facilitate the internal process: their journey: the unfolding and revealing of their truth, values and desires. Clean approach is key. Clean Language, Clean Space and Emergent Practice - David Grove, Grovian Psychology - are probably the most important and helpful techniques and practices I have had the blessing to be trained in with regard to enabling a client to naturally find their own way, unveil their own answers, dismantle or remove their own obstacles and create their own compelling motivation.
  
  I guess it's fait to say there are thousands of ways in which such a process plays out but there are some similarities that occur and that's why I wrote my blog on motivation.
  
  Remaining motivated is indeed bolstered by the process I describe in the blog. If you have gone beyond the goal into the feelings of what the goal will really give you and also remain aware of what it is you are moving away from, your chances of success are multiplied. Add to this the use of the symbol (harnessing your unconscious process) and the simple question of 'next right action' and you will be 'cooking on gas' so to say.
  http://simoncaira.blogspot.co.uk/#!/2012/04/motivation.html

• A reply on Conversation: Our beliefs are based upon our experiences vs Our experiences are created by our beliefs

  Mar 4 2012: How early in our development might we begin forming beliefs?

• A reply on Conversation: Our beliefs are based upon our experiences vs Our experiences are created by our beliefs

  Mar 4 2012: What do you think the great masters would do? How do you think they'd have this trick down specifically ?

• A reply on Conversation: Our beliefs are based upon our experiences vs Our experiences are created by our beliefs

  Mar 4 2012: I know people who had their belief in God shattered after personal loss. Do you think that means they all blame God? Might it be they have entered a level of such sadness, low morale, or flatness, it suppresses and disconnects them in an unusual, never before experienced, way?

• A reply on Conversation: Our beliefs are based upon our experiences vs Our experiences are created by our beliefs

  Mar 4 2012: Perception is key. In regard to enabling change in percetion/beliefs there is a way to make natural shifts purely by attending to the next level up on the personality hierarchy. What do you think the next level up might be?

• A reply on Conversation: Our beliefs are based upon our experiences vs Our experiences are created by our beliefs

  Mar 4 2012: Our outer world accurately reflects our inner world?

• A reply on Conversation: "Beliefs are like tabletops - they need legs to stand on." I'm just curious to know, what does this mean to you?

  Mar 1 2012: Some say that our beliefs are formed from our experiences. Others say our experiences are the direct result of our beliefs.
  
  What do you say?