luke griffis Posted about 3 years ago What do you think about the term "fitting in" at school, work, or an outing somewhere? as RH stated below.. screw em! why should it matter? what purpose does it serve to "fit in?" Obviously in life you're going to have to work with people that are unpleasant and one may have to adapt to those unpleasant persons style of thinking, but that doesn't necessarily mean put on a mask and attempt to become something you are not.