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A reply on Talk: Sheryl Sandberg: Why we have too few women leaders
This question, what is the difference in thinking of men and women has been a recurring one in my quest to understand women, the concrete differences between men and women, society and the nature of truth. (How can we know truth without knowing our own minds? Our mind is the lense through which we observe and understand.)
In trying to understand my own mindset and comparing to the way women think the closest I have gotten are general tendancies. One thing that may help to understand WHY men prefer to work within hierarchies and women are better suited to talking it out as equals may be found in the structure of our brains.
Women's brains have 7X more connections between left and right hemispheres. This makes a woman's brain more limber in going from logic to feelings and back again.
For men, because we have fewer connections, we tend to stay in one hemisphere longer, working out ways create a cohesive and comprehensive paradigm that covers all the details and rules that reality demand of us. A limitation becomes a strength. We create more extensive adn comprehensive paradigms. If it works we are a genius. If it misses the mark, we are idiots.
Once that paradigm has been worked out, it becomes a common language and a source of decision making factors. Men like this because instead of being dominated by Joe, we are instead dominated by an idea.
A comment on Talk: Angela Lee Duckworth: The key to success? Grit
Other books have helped me a lot. The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle and the Enlightened Warrior Training Course put out by Peak Potentials stand out in helping me understand my mind and to develop grit and the growth mindset.
I have learned to praise myself for hard work, diligence and persistence and I am slowly improving. My approach to hard work is more constructive. I chunk down learning tasks better. If I have an achilles heel it is my tendency to come up with a 100 new ideas to distract me from my current course. With the help of some of the practices gleaned from 'Getting Things Done' by David Allen I give myself permission to brainstorm these new ideas and then file them away in the 'someday maybe' file until the task in front of me is completed.
I liked this talk. I am glad Ms. Duckworth referred to Dr. Dweck. As soon as she started talking about grit my little voice was screaming 'you have got to read Mindset!' I am glad she did.
A reply on Talk: Andreas Schleicher: Use data to build better schools
Deming and Drucker, management experts, agree what gets measured improves. The work at PISA gets government, parents and teachers to challenge their assumptions, look beyond themselves to other models of success, and ask that important and fruitful question, "How can we do better?" Measurements like these allow those concerned to sift through the noise and see patterns that might be otherwise missed.
I liked the talk. I found it enlightening.
A reply on Talk: Sanjay Pradhan: How open data is changing international aid
I get nervous when people talk about the 'collective'. I wonder why. It reminds me of that book 'The Crysalids' with the mind control children for some reason.
I think learning is done by individuals with help from those around them. In his book 'The Talent Code' Daniel Coyle talks about 'ignition', that is where the student becomes a passionate learner and works harder than any other person could possibly expect. I highly recommend it.
A reply on Talk: Sanjay Pradhan: How open data is changing international aid
Wikipedia, Khanacademy.org and Google, combined with curiosity is the formula. Billions of minds can start to connect the pieces.
A reply on Talk: Sanjay Pradhan: How open data is changing international aid
http://www.ted.com/talks/beth_noveck_demand_a_more_open_source_government.html
Also you can check out www.Whitehouse.gov.
P.S. I am Canadian, and a big fan of Obama. I think he may be one of the US's best presidents. Most of the accomplishments of his administration are below the radar, long term, collaborative and, well, adult. They do not translate well into the language of instant gratification or sound bites.
A comment on Talk: Faith Jegede: What I’ve learned from my autistic brothers
I have never heard it said better.
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