Lady Barbara

Hohot, China

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Lady Barbara
Posted over 2 years ago
Why do we need violence to transfer power?
Because peaceful ways do not work. Otherwise, violence or military force is a symbol of one country's comprehensive strength, such as at present U.S. are planning using military force to fight against Iran in order to frighten Iran.
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Lady Barbara
Posted over 2 years ago
Why do we chase happiness?
Indeed, we human beings are in need of happiness, if not , we will not devote ourselves even the whole lifetime to chase happiness. Noone wants to lie in grief.
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Lady Barbara
Posted over 2 years ago
How do you define "being successful"?
Hey, when I saw your respond, it is almost noon.So I prefer to greet as Good Noon! Yang. Definitely sometimes people are far from their dreams even they have tried so hard to get close to them. Even I once confronted with that situation, too. I felt sorrowful and asked myself :" Why I tried so hard, but life doesnot rewards me what I had deserved?" Even several times I cried and did not know whether I should hold on to. Life is a conflict ,even a paradox. We canot change life the way it is. But we can adjust the the way we are.We all learn that we human beings are the smallest element of the universe, we have no power to alter the world, but we can self-adjusted. The point is what you did should not be sorry for yourself. It is not easy for a human being to live.So as for me, I smile to myelf and keep a great spirit everyday morning when the sun rises up because only you yourself could deeply understand and care youself. We need success, but we cannot go to extreme only to b successful. Tomorrow , whether success will come to our life or not, is a mystery we should cherish!
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Lady Barbara
Posted over 2 years ago
How do you define "being successful"?
Firstly, thank you for your compliment. INDEED, up to now, I canot call myself " being successful", but I am trying my best to make myself close to success, Let us discuss our topic. You said one will feel even more desperate bydoing things never try before, I wonder in what kind of circumstances will that happen? Maybe some donot lead a chanllenging life at all, thus they may be feel desperate. However, there is a saying " your can never view the whole sight untill you reach the top pf the mount." Likewise, personally I feel that challenging can make me have a sense of success. Maybe you disagree with me, some people donot want a life full of challenge, they just wanna do every day work whiich make them feel successful. I reckon that that is a king of being successful. Being successful is an attitude on how people define it and pursue it . It varies on different people's different opinions. Haha, what I said above is my opinion , it does not represent others'. Thanks for allowing me to share my points with you.
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Lady Barbara
Posted over 2 years ago
How do you define "being successful"?
The key to this question depends on how people view or value them. We cannot answer absolutely. In my opinion, being successful means achieving things that you have never tried before , whic makes you happy and comfortable. transcend yourself and fullfill your inner heart. That is what I mean by being successful.