Lauren Wong Posted over 3 years ago Have you ever felt like you don't belong in your family, group of friends, culture, or country? If so why? I too have felt this way many times. For me, it is hard because I feel I am always changing and evolving, growing into the person I want to be and yet falling into old habits of my past. Sometimes I feel as though I fit in really well, and yet other times I just think I am creating a sense of comfort for myself and am never sure if it is true. I want to be optimistic about things I am doing and feel that it is "me", yet it is hard. I feel like who I am changes a lot and very quickly. I think many college students feel this way but it is hard to explore deeply with others without seeming lost.