Don McCann Posted 8 months ago Are we making ourselves redundant? Hi Edulover, It is not for the lack of trying that I don't have a real female voice to greet me when I come home. I think I may have become too picky to find anyone suitable. My late wife was extraordinary. I have only met one person who comes close, and she is married. I haven't given up hope, but find myself hoping for the best and planning for the worst. Besides, it is not out of the question that even the ideal woman would find a personal assistant to be useful.