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I'm passionate about

I'm passionate about finding people who have experienced what Jill Bolte Taylor experienced,..utter bliss,total giving up of all bondage,nirvana,God,cosmic consciousness,seeker of the truth.

An idea worth spreading

We are all one,part of each other,from the same source,and that includes anything that is/was/living on this earth. If only we all knew this and conducted our lives with this idea,theworld would be a kinder,nicer,healthier place to live.

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• A comment on Conversation: Love, and be loved.

  Feb 28 2013: and about loving yourself...yes,and when you find that love for you to yourself you are more loving to others...but,loving everyone isfoolish....when you are touched by agape,you know who you can love,because to waste precious love on someone who doesn't appreciate it,is like throwing it away for nought,only to be hurt..you must be selective and you will be,agape changes your whole life...it doesn't make you more tolerant to ignorance...it makes you more aware...and you must always listen to the voice within...
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  A comment on Conversation: Love, and be loved.

  Feb 28 2013: there are two kinds of love...eros and agape...eros has to do with man,nature,plants as physical things,biological things,with a rude idea of what God is,simplistic and believeable or not...when one experiences "agape" there is love like no other...because it radiates from the body as unconditional love....erotic love is not unconditional love and never can be as much as we'd like it to...because it is dependant on what a person thinks,feels,experiences...but "agape" love overwhelms each being and ties him to his soul,God or whatever....the agape love that radiates from the Source,is unconditional and therefore makes us feel secure,warm,loved,joyous,blissful...we all seek that love...many have experienced it...one only gets hurt from ego love...
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  A comment on Talk: Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

  Feb 27 2013: this video is excellent...it has many "aha" moments...and yes,it seems that many men do complain about "sexless marriages" but there is a reason for them...menopause and the changes a woman goes thru and men do too...i find that european men are far more romantic and understanding and discreet...they can have affairs and it is considered a "normal" thing by many and written about and nobody seems offended...when I booted my ex out after twenty some years,he told me that i needed "ten" men..no, i said,only one good one and it seems that we do want everything rolled up in one and i firmly believe we can find that..but people have to come to terms with aging and boredom...the worst thing for me was to lose my identity in a relationship...after many years,it happens to women particularly...and women,many of them,are far more intelligent,curious,talented,etc.than what men allow them to be...they feel threatened if their wife has more talent,is more successful because they fear "loss of control"...
  Anyway,maybe i'm off topic here...but basically,man is not monogamous if his testosterone is at a good level....we are all just biological creatures and the male can copulate and make babies,even into old age and often does...if he feels that a female is receptive,usually a female that still shows oestrus,he is in lust and that is the start of everything...but in animals,the male does,for lack of better words,"pester the female and often brings her into heat"....it make take awhile before that happens,particularly with a female that he is with a lot or for a long time,whereas a younger female will show signs faster...
  Men need to learn a whole lot more about females...they can't just take things forgranted,like,i have the equipment,when do we use it?...lol