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How to survive a divorce you don't want?

I'm on the brink of divorce and love my wife like crazy, how do I survive the split if or when it happens? She says she is confused about how she feels and wants to give it more time. She says she wants to find herself. Any advice would be appreciated as to what I should do? My heart is being crushed.

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  • dru banaszak

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    Feb 19 2012: Divorice is an awful ordeal to endure.Sometimes i feel it's important to love each other just the way they are.While giving your loved one the space she needs, maybe there is some action you could take to show her how much you care.(As in actions speak louder than words).I know the hurt you are feeling. You must allow her the time she needs.Let her know you will back off out of respect for her. theres nothing wrong w/ sending a card or flowers etc.As hard as it is-Let her go. Love her from a distance and if you believe in God surrender this to Him-As it will be too much to bear alone. If it is meant to be she will come back to you when she is ready. Good Luck Varlan and don't forget to take care of yourself.

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