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Whether a single woman and 2 cats life can be regarded as a family?

Recently goverment in Beijing is ready to orgnizate a competition about " harmonious family". there are some certain standard ! For exmple: how many books in the family ? how long are familiers on internet everyday ? how many times the family travel every year ````and so on . I wonder whether a single woman and two cats life can be regarded as a family


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Thanks every friend who answered my question ! I feel warm and happy ! I am not good at English . I will work hard at learning English in order to get more love from the triends in the world !

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  • Feb 4 2012: Consider interacting with your own species. Human beings need all the love and nurturing you are giving to your cats. The silence of your cats does not mean they are less critical and judgemental of you than human beings. People seem to be afraid of nearness to people for fear of the judgement and criticism that is heaped upon them. Anyway, I think it is a loss to humanity that you pour your affection, time, money and other resources onto your cats instead of onto human beings. I would not regard you and your cats as a family.
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      Feb 4 2012: thank you to give me your view . i got devorced 2 years ago , In fact i am fraid to get married again ! I feel i share the life of this status ! I have other familiers not in Beijing but in the other place .
      • Feb 7 2012: lin, I understand your hesitancy, but come up with the courage to dive back into loving one or more members of your own species. Ultimately, humans will yield greater fulfillment, love, happiness and a richer, more interesting life than cats. I hope your heart heals quickly from your divorce. People are complex and sometimes difficult, but we learn much from interacting with them about them and about ourselves. Come back to humanity. We miss you. Let the cats take care of themselves. Humanity needs you, wants you, appreciates you and enjoys you. In the meantime.....'to thine own self be good.' Power to the positive. Happy Today.
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          Feb 11 2012: In fact , I am cring now for these words you said ! Thanks so much ! I will try my best to change ! what you said give me so much power !

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