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Can you kindly complete this? If you love me then you will never...

experiences, evaluations and expectations run with time...our references is a mix of our past experiences and they affect our present emotional and mental states which in turn influences our present evaluations thus, finally predicts to a large extent our future expectations...
This question would help you recall those values you have for love and would help in shaping your 3 'Es'

if you love me then you will never lie to me.

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    Jan 2 2012: I have seen some terrible things happen between those that love themselves , so i think it is not love we should be talking about here.
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      Jan 4 2012: So what do you think is more important? kindly share...
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        Jan 5 2012: Hmmm. I'm certainly not vtalking Hollywood happy endings. I'm talking about a deep understanding of who we are and in particular how we behave. I'm talking forgiveness and understanding. Not high statements of commitment. I think we are only just beginning to reveal our natures through the work of evolutionary biologists and psychologists. I'm not sure we can make bold statements and believe that they will hold up for ever or until tomorrow.
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          Jan 5 2012: what an insight... well forgiveness and understanding are just parts of the matter i believe, the heart of it is ... i do not know now but i know before this conversation expires i would get an inkling to it.
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        Jan 5 2012: Reveal yourself. Are you really a bird? Is that a wise old owl or a dove?
        Look its just the 'never' I have problems with.
        Never never.
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          Jan 10 2012: Phillip my Ted pal...come on that is a snow owl...how have you been?

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