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Being ready for making mistakes. Improving from failure.

Which is the best attitude to face mistakes? Should they be avoided at all cost?.How can we get rid of the fear of failure without falling in foolishness?

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    Nov 11 2011: mistakes are inevitable the only way to fully avoid them is not to try.....so its a choice. the best thing for me for fear is to not jump into the ocean but put on water wings and go into the shallow end ...eventually you can go further and further and your body learns that little splashes do not mean drowning... so if you have a certain fear of speaking or dancing or trying something new then it is good to set a safe place to practice these things..dancing first before a mirror then with strnagers you will never see then at your sisters wedding then at a one to one class then in a group and finally on stage. if you think while you sit in your liiving room about dancing on stage right now you will have a heart attack most people would! so you say i cant do that... but every one you see doing something amazing that you could never do for fear..has crawled their way there bit by bit. if you didnt make a tit of yourself as a child you may have to relive that lesson you missed...even if only simbolically. thats what i think anyway;} i think the point is you must be willing to risk failure foolishness even death and also to risk succeeding which often happens as m,uch by surprise as a fall!
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      Nov 12 2011: So your point is that if you want to be ready for mistakes you have to try first with little ones with little consequences that you can afford at "low cost". Very sensible!

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