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Jerell Parker

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When did we as human beings lose our child like nature? When did we give up on our dreams and goals?

I'm a Senior in High School and I have begun to notice that I'm not as playful as I used to be. I don't joke about stuff and I'm way more serious. Yes I understand this is growing up but do I really have to undergo this process to fit in to main stream society. So my question when did we lose ourselves when did we allow circumstances and people around us to determine who we should be?

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    Oct 11 2011: I don't know exactly when but I know exactly what your saying
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      Oct 12 2011: Have you personally taken any steps to counteract this trend?
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        Oct 13 2011: well yes, i talked with a couple of my friends who had little to no goals in life and got them interested in certain subjects.
        Here's my technique to develop life goals: what I do is no matter what activity i'm doing, i make a goal. Therefore I feel accomplished when doing little things, then I get sort of addicted to the feeling of success and then set life goals. Then from there I think of all the good things that could come out of my achievement
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        Oct 14 2011: my pleasure :)

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