Kuldeep Daftary

Web Design and Development, Springboard Enterprises Ltd.

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How to make life Positive Instantly?

Just curious to know different Ideas.

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    Sep 27 2011: There is something that never fails to make me happy instantly- a baby's laugh. No matter where I am that sound attacks me with happiness. All is right with the world when a baby laughs.
    • Sep 27 2011: Debra I agree. It is also great to watch older kids happy, curious, laughing and saying silly things =)

      I am also happy seeing how much people help others through various projects and seeing videos (esp. on TED) about their effort.

      On other hand I find depressing reading local news about accidents and murders so I avoid them.
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      Sep 28 2011: Yes Debra I agree too. A laughing baby can melt your heart and makes u feel better instantly.
      At all Watch this Video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RP4abiHdQpc as an experiment :) You'll feel better.
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        Sep 28 2011: EXACTLY! Thank you for this smile that I am wearing! Who can resist it?
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    Sep 28 2011: Agreed with Debra & Zednek.
    Finding reson to lough out loud helps a lot.
    The other point is thinking positive, looking in to the brighter side of anything, being around people with positive energy also important.
    • Sep 28 2011: Yes I think sometimes it is necessary to minimize or even avoid to deal with negative people including relatives in order to preserve inner peace. =)
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    Sep 27 2011: I pray to God.That never fails to change a bad day into a good one. =)
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    Sep 27 2011: If life isn't yet positive adjust your attitude.
    Stop with complaining, don't take yourself too much serious, admire all beauty you see, and do what you think you need to do the best you can.
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    Sep 28 2011: Simply be good to other people! That's something most of us should do as often as possible, that's the place where God resides!
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    Sep 28 2011: I'm not sure there's an 'instant' fix. It looks to me like a systemic change that involves monitoring and shifting your thoughts. Possibly, it starts with disengaging, and then selectively re-engaging.

    I'm still of the mindset that if you cannot identify one thing that makes you happy that is ubiquitous, free, and common, then there is nothing on this planet that can.
  • Sep 27 2011: in my case, I find two things quite helpful.....
    believe in someone up there... ( I am really not a 'form' believer, but do believe in something making you go.).

    Most amazingly, I find a 'negative ' thought also gives me positive feeling... feeling of living today. Its feeling of not living tomorrow....that makes me realize that I have only today. Quite many times I have had strong difference of opinion with my closed ones and I realized that i was missing and running out of time. So I immediately came back to them to make up to things ( of course lot of time I am only at fault... but to err is human right!)
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    Sep 27 2011: something to look forward to
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    Sep 29 2011: screw TGIF Well TGIT (T.hanks G.od I.ts T.oday), I try to live with acceptance and empathy of people and just live as positively as possible. If I do find something I dont like, I dont try to avoid it but rather crash into it and go deeper in it. if im crying, i continue crying. i like to live as spectator and see everything