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If you could ask one question to all of your neighbors, what would you ask?

Live TED Conversation: Join TED Fellow Candy Chang

Candy is a public installation artist, designer, and urban planner who likes to make cities more comfortable for people. She's passionate about redefining the ways we use public space to share information that can improve our neighborhoods and our personal well-being. See more of her at http://candychang.com and http://civiccenter.cc.

This conversation will open at 3pm EST on Monday, August 1, 2011.

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Noelle Matzek
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Aug 4 2011: If you weren't concerned (or, should it be consumed) with the fear of scarcity what would you generously offer everyone you came into contact with? Follow up question: Is your fear of scarcity truly real or is it perceived?
Ken McManus
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Aug 4 2011: In 30 plus years of work as a mental health clinician and community leader the aggregate of my experiences has led me to several observations/conclusions about "community", particularly within the context of middle, upper-middle class America. The first is that that long-standing dominance of white male privilege has been the prominent force in the growing disconnections between members of our communities. There are a variety of data that point to higher levels of community experience among people of color and between women. Second, in this context insidious, internalized oppressions now degrade individual and community life within all cultural groups and in particular, our nations youth, including white youth. Changing conversations from emphases on laziness and intelligence levels to forces/habits of oppression will create opportunities for people to feel valid amongst each other across all differences. Third, as we have engaged the dramatic sift from dependence on each other to dependence on technologies, we have raised the "bar" as regards the matrices of self-sufficiency: what one has and what one can do for oneself have become extreme. Finally, within the digital universe there is growing evidence that despite ourselves we need and seek each other. Recent, brilliant presentations on TED provide illustrations of the power of this need, not only in its reach but in its potential for collaborative good. Regrettably, it may take a social-economic meltdown of sorts, seemingly assured by the impotency of modern political systems, to awaken people in their individual and collective fear to the deep resource of community- of each other.
Dianne Timmerman
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Aug 4 2011: Have you seen the trees are starting to bud?

BTW: I would feel very uncomfortable if my neighbours started asking about my biggest dream, or inquiring after my core being, so I would never start with a question like that.
This despite being from a country that seems to be famous for its directness or rudeness.
Salim Solaiman 50+
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Aug 4 2011: What do you think / feel about the way we are living in this neighbourhood ?
That will be my only question as then only can generate enough information and learn more about what needed to be changed...........
helene cyr
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Aug 4 2011: I would like to ask or suggest we re-think the use of fences. What are we trying to keep out or in?
Fences... defining spaces between us. I've seen it on roof tops too which is completely ludicrous. My brother reacted to this and asked hypothetically, would I be comfortable with my neighbor's massive dog play with my 2yr old? Most likely not. However, I can't help think how wonderful it would be to add our backyards together as a central space, communal gardens and bigger spaces for the children to roam freely. It's pretty simple really.
tyler burn
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Aug 4 2011: Could you please just ignore my presence altogether? I would ask them that, I dread the thought of trying to awkwardly be too worried about how I'm supposed to be looking at their eyes so that it might appear I'm a good listener and respectful but really I'm too concentrated on doing that so I really dont know what their saying and lose my train of thought as well my social presence must remain in constant war of trying to be normal while not looking anxious and giving off signs that I dont want to be there even though I really dont want to be there but I dont want it to look like I dont want to there and seriously I'd rather just be alone in my room in complete isolation.
Ashley Nunez
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Aug 3 2011: What was your biggest dream growing up?
Jim Moonan 30+
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Aug 3 2011: "Good fences make good nieghbors." - Robert Frost
Rui Dias
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Aug 3 2011: If i could ask one thing to my neighbor or to everyone for that matter it should be: "isn't life amazing? An astounding existence?" If anything else is a great ice breaker even if one does not agree, has i've found in a research project that i'm envolved. Its related to the process of meaning making, meaning search and the subsequent meanings hierarchy that is envolved in the process, so, Social Psychology. But i Made the experiment in my community, outside the research realm and works very well, i believe because its invitation to reflexion and even abstract thinking wich can be a very close, intimate, experience. And after all, isn't it an astounding existence?
Bernd Fesel 30+
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Aug 2 2011: Candys passion of "redefining the ways we use public space" is also at the heart of urban change from the industrial to the digital society. If it is Detroit, Bilbao, Milano, Lyon, Liverpool, Nantes or the Ruhr Region - all share that with the end of an industry the future of their city was at stake: public space collapsed.
To start re-generation very often public installation art is happening - yes, just happening because artist use the empty space. no permission needed for lost spaces in cities...

Last year however during the European Culture Capital in Ruhr this was the official strategy: Installation Art as the (artistic, social and economic) avantgarde for urban change. One art project is just stunning - the re-vitalization of a river, from dirt to living / housing at the water front for 10 Bill. Euros was led by EMSCHER.ART: About 10 art installation a long the river to integrate the so-long industrial river back in the social map of the inhabitants. Several Millions were invested in these art projects with famous and non-famous artist and we did over english subtitled 50 films about the process over the last 2 years: http://bit.ly/ljGAex

Candys talk and question about art and public space is for us at the very centre of our future. culture gives incentives business can not. One realizes this when business is really really bad and public space collapses - unfortunately it is a price to learn. I hope other cities learn quicker then we did.
Patrick Duffy
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Aug 2 2011: My children ask "Would you like some lemonade?" Our neighbors are closer than they would otherwise be without the occasional lemonade stand.
Joe Delsen 20+
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Aug 2 2011: Sweet Candy, knowing more about our neighbors and caring for them even only in small ways, I believe, will bring more collaborative effort for the community.

This human principle always bother me:

"Your neighbors don't care how much you know until they know how much you care"

Great calling Candy!
Debra Smith 200+
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Aug 2 2011: I guess, I would ask " Can I help you?" when I see them struggling with something.
jaeyun hwang
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Aug 2 2011: Okay this might not be the answer you want but you did ask for it....
I would ask "Do you know any twenty somethings available for a blind date?"
Yes i know, it is crude but i am a single guy and that is the first question that pops into mind.

Right now my neighbors are strangers. How do you approach strangers and inquire about their family without getting stared at. Meeting in bars, clubs and churches might be a good way. Except i'm not into religion, clubbing and drinking.

A communal space for cooking, eating, exercising and entertainment would be a nice place to start. Cities are too isolationist. You are in the midst of millions of people most of which you fear are out to exploit you in one way or another.
Rafi Amin 20+
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Aug 2 2011: What are you expert at ? So that we know where you can help us & vice verssa..
James Turner 10+
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Aug 2 2011: I would ask if I could do one good thing for them today to make life a little better. Is there something I can do to make your day better Candy Chang?
Blessings to you
Andrea Morisette Grazzini 30+
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Aug 2 2011: Candy,

I'd ask them if they'd join me for a glass of wine or tea and share something about their core being. Meaning the person behind their closed doors, their car, their clothes, so to speak. Perhaps even "their story" if they're willing to share it.

My goal would be to learn about their internal character, the one behind their externally expressed characteristics. And make an authentic connection around what we both care about which might be used as scaffolding for future conversations.

A wonderful question, and wonderful to hear of your passion for public spaces.

Andrea
- Luigi Vampa
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  Aug 2 2011: Signora Andrea, of course this conversation is wonderfull because its about human feelings, simple feelings, not theories or political or economic affairs. Simple things for wonderfull life. The cultural distance give us different choices to see hoe we can go to the neighbor. (il prossimo, el projimo, il proximo). The real thing is the deep meaning of the approach. Its a form for radical humanism: love others as love yourself. Dont you believe?
  - Andrea Morisette Grazzini 30+
    
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    Aug 2 2011: Yes, Luigi,
    
    I agree with you. I think of it as seeking the "hidden humanity" in others. In this process there is an exchange wherein each person's "hidden humanity" can reflect and absorb. So when I see another's "hidden humanity" I see more of my own. My belief is this is best achieved in personal relationships where mutual presence is the primary agenda.
    
    Andrea
Judge Pau 50+
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Aug 2 2011: "How are you ?"

I think what's important is not what to ask, but what you should do after you ask.
Too many people think greeting and questioning are two different thing.
They demand answer when they ask question, but when they greet they don't wait for an answer.
Connection is interactive
Connection is acknowledgement
Connection is validating
Connection is accepting
Connection
is a smile and a gaze.
Bob Van Oosterhout 20+
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Aug 2 2011: I ask questions that seem relevant to the other person's interests. I live in an isolated area and have made it a habit whenever I am out the past few years to strike up a conversation with whomever is nearby if we are together for more than a few seconds. This includes standing in lines, looking at items in stores, waiting rooms, elevators (when traveling - there are none around here). I find most people are receptive to this and I have had quite a few very interesting conversations. I walked into a silent waiting room when my daughter was having oral surgery, asked one question and the conversation was still going on when I returned after her surgery. I believe it is our nature to connect and rarely (I can't remember when) have found people to be offended by a friendly interesting remark. It just takes a bit of practice and a few moments of careful observation to find that first question or comment. It is easier when there is something interesting to look at.
Luigi Vampa
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Aug 2 2011: We have to remember that the approach with others are no the same in different cultures. The classic scene from films when the neighbor goes to ask for a cup of sugar is just an american use, more a film example than a reality. Here in Italy we used the streets, not the homes. The home space is sacred and not ready for goodwill visitors. We prefer to be in the plaza or the restaurant, a neutral space than in our own homes. I never lived in other part, except in Mexico and the uses there are more or less the same than here. When you can traspass the main door then you are accepted as a neighbor, not before. We dont ask anything we prefer to see in silence and collect some information from the friends. The friendship is also a different feel here than other parts.
Peter Ghin
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Aug 2 2011: Great thread. One thing that fascinates me in this discussion about community connectedness is the role media/technology plays in contributing to 'empathy fatigue'. We are connected to so many more people today that it becomes psychologically fraught to continually extend our empathy to those beyond the social/familial tribes our human minds were designed to love and care for. I'm exploring this notion in a participatory arts project called Walk the Talk where I invite people to a public park in Melbourne (AUS) and ask them to pair up with a stranger and go on an en mass self-directed stroll for an hour. We'll see how it goes! P http://www.pozible.com/index.php/archive/index/1191/description/0/0
- Candy Chang 500+
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  Aug 2 2011: Hey Peter - That's a good point and good luck with your project. It's great to explore ways we can be more selective in the connections that are meaningful to us. In New Orleans some people talk about "planning fatigue." After Katrina, a lot of people went to a lot of community meetings, but many times they never saw any noticeable outcomes. People only have so much time and energy to give. How can we weed out the noise and get real things done around the issues we care about?
  
  We each have our niche interests. How do you better connect the person who wants fresh produce with the local food co-op trying to get off the ground? How do you connect the person who wants more trees with the local green organization? How do you connect the person who wants to open a coffee shop with the local process on how to start a business? Our neighbors are great sources of information for these things - if we could easily reach out to them...
Marlene Robbins
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Aug 1 2011: I was asked to comment on my response to your question: What would you ask your neighbors? I said,"Where does your hope spring from? And what have you done for someone else without thought of personal gain?" I want to know my neighbors better, understand where they are coming from, and also just do personal research on where people are at in these days and times. There is so much division, conflict, misunderstanding throughout the world, why build on it with hostility and defensiveness? I am always curious about people's deeper motivations, what makes them tick. I feel that to heal the ills of this world, we as humans are called on to do two things: listen to the natural world and what it is telling us (through our dreams as well as facts) and to grow our own compassionate natures. I want to start with my own community and build from there. I have asked my friends on Facebook about their altruism, but hardly one could respond. Everyone is so wrapped up in me, mine, what can I get, that true giving without thought of recompense has all but disappeared in our culture. It is frankly shocking in a culture that is so rich in material wealth as well as basic necessities. Our soul wealth seems bankrupt. Also, to have better neighbors I must be a better neighbor. When I show that I truly care about another person, they are more apt to listen and share. Seems pretty basic to me.
Amber Kearney
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Aug 1 2011: I'm sure my neighbor was wondering what I was doing outside at 1am in my pajama's last night....the answer.....taking the dog to go potty. You couldn't see my dog because he was walking through our plants. He's 12 years old and elderly so he can't go out back because of the stairs. My neighbors are mostly quiet and friendly. But we do have a rental behind us. We hardly ever see or hear them but they built what looks like an outdoor living room complete with refrigerator and couch and not enough cover to keep the elements out. But yet, every big game or race day, they are out there and they always pop off a few fireworks when their team wins. It's funny and yet.....why didn't they just do that with their living room since they never seem to be in it? It's the one room in the house we can see and we never see them in it. And yet at the same time, to each their own and everything for a reason.
Luigi Vampa
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Aug 1 2011: All of you are my ciberneighbors then I asked....Do you want to ride a bike. We start the WBW (World Bike Web). Here in Rome theres a lot of people riding a bike....so you want to join us?.
Jim Moonan 30+
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Aug 1 2011: I would ask my neighbors how we can together find small but meaningful ways to enhance our "mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam" (I can't get Sabin's profile quote of Carl Sagan's out of my head!!) with beauty, charm and meaning. Little things that together make a big difference in how we live our lives together - not in isolation.
Jens Oberender
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Aug 1 2011: Dear Candy,

If there were no psychological issues: honestly, what is your contribution to a better world?
In reality; many people will suspect complications behind this -

So I reduce the complexity, asking the following:
"If there is one thing in the world you can change to make the world better, what would it be?"

Thank You!
Shanai Matteson
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Aug 1 2011: My art & design collective, Works Progress (http://www.worksprogress.org/) has spent the last 2 years asking our neighbors in Minneapolis & St.Paul two very simple questions: What do you know? What do you want to know?

To us, these questions seemed like the basis for building relationships that could help to regenerate our cities.

We designed a new community event called Give & Take around these two questions, giving neighbors an opportunity to meet one another in a safe social space, building community around personal assets and knowledge. It's been incredible! We are now working to expand the program outside of the metropolitan Twin Cities, and are interested in developing a DIY Give & Take "kit" for neighborhoods & communities. Here's a couple of links! Would love to share what we've learned with others!

Give & Take: http://www.give-take.org/
Video Intro: http://vimeo.com/26980158

Also: Candy, we so admire your work, Thank You!
- Annabeth Orton
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  Aug 1 2011: Hurrah for another exciting project! :D
  I am really interested in the relationship between the whole web 2.0 thing (by that I mean social networking, using websites to encourage interactions, etc) and physical communities. On the one hand it seems that I have better and more frequent comtact with people in other countries than I do my own neighbours, and I can't help wonder if such sites are contributing to this... On the other hand it seems like it could be such an invaluable tool for engaging people in the first instance who would never normally be interested in arts/community practices. How can we get people to get out from behind their PCs and meet up in the real world?
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    Aug 1 2011: We had the same question when we started the Give & Take event I linked to above! Social networking sites and blog platforms made it possible, as artists and designers and engaged citizens, to expand our network of peers and to have really generative conversations about practice, but when it came to connecting in our own neighborhoods, and generating the same kind of energy, it was a whole lot harder. Either the on ramps are not there, or the community infrastructures are outdated.
    
    Think about it: you pass all kinds of neighbors on the street, in stores, at events -- and if you don't already have a connection, the chances that you will stop to talk with one another are slim. Especially if your perceptions prevent you from seeing beyond what you see, if you think you couldn't possibly even have anything to talk about. I think that's a lot of missed potential there, because many of your neighbors probably have fascinating ideas, skills, or energy to share! And it's likely that if you tried, you'd find something in common.
    
    It seems as though our silos are getting bigger (more global), but they are still silos. I think there is a way to take what we love about connecting online (surprises! connections! information! Ideas!) and create real world platforms for exchange that are deeply rooted in our communities, but connected to a more global creative renaissance.
  - Shanai Matteson
    
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    Aug 1 2011: Oh, and I also think homemade food (and also beer) are both amazing neighbor makers! You can't get that experience online ;)
    - Annabeth Orton
      
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      Aug 1 2011: Yes, I thought you might have encountered the same question which is why I raised it... I agree about the beer though - hence the Fancy A Pint? (http://www.glittermouse.co.uk/fancy-a-pint.html) project that I tried to get off the ground and my comments below regarding cake! This conversation has given me the push to revist that project further now though, and I'm currently sat here planning ways to get my neighbours to trust random muffins...
      Another interesting artist network to keep an eye on though - I feel very encouraged that there are so many people working in these areas at the moment!
  - Colin Kloecker
    
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    Aug 1 2011: Hi Annabeth - that really is a great question!
    
    I actually work with Shanai on Give & Take (and a bunch of other projects through http://www.worksprogress.org/), but just wanted to chime in to add that our vision for Give & Take is that it becomes kind of like a community-based TED Talks, not just for change-makers, but for everyday people who have something to share - be it a story, a hobby, a passion or even just an idea. We've started doing these events in different neighborhoods around the Twin Cities and will soon do our first event in rural Minnesota. The idea is that the content generated at the events can be fed back to a main hub online, very much like TED. Videos from the event will be shareable, allowing the live event to be a launching pad for all kinds of new connections happening online.
    
    Which is all to say: I really believe that we have only just begun to harness social networking online for face-to-face community-building. There is so much potential here, but as Shanai points out, the key is in building real/virtual communities that bridge cultural silos rather than reinforce them.
    
    People answer our two questions on their name tags when they come to the event: "What do you know?" and "What do you want to know?" (For example: http://www.flickr.com/photos/worksprogress/sets/72157624019736075/) But this isn't just a clever ice-breaker! We've created a whole series of games to play with the audience that are designed to get people making new connections on their own. The 1.5 hour event ends up being a mix of community-sourced presentations (you can sign up on our site: http://www.give-take.org/) and social games that get people talking to each other. Because it's not issue-based, people come from all different walks of life.
    - Annabeth Orton
      
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      Aug 1 2011: Hi Colin,
      I like the project and I can see that you have developed a 'face to face' element to it... so share the secret...? ;) How do you get people to turn up? Where do you publicise your website? How do you get people fired up to join in? Maybe that's a question with some really obvious answers but I think it's one of the first stumbling blocks to participative projects and definitely a key area to share good practice around. For myself, so far, I've had the best responses by approaching exisitng community groups. This is important and can be used to forge links between such groups but I am really interested in this mysterious goal of facilitating interactions between strangers... How do *you* do it?
    - Candy Chang 500+
      
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      Aug 2 2011: Hey Shanai and Colin - Great to check out Works Progress and Give & Take, keep on keeping' on! Good thoughts along with Annabeth on online tools to enhance physical communities. Been thinking about this a lot lately. My colleagues and I are currently launching http://neighborland.org in New Orleans. It takes the I Wish This Was public art project on vacant storefronts (http://iwishthiswas.cc) a few steps further to help people shape future businesses and services in their area. There are pros and cons to both analogue and digital tools and we're still trying to figure out how to rock the best of both and bridge the two.
  - Colin Kloecker
    
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    Aug 1 2011: [Annabeth, for some reason I can't reply directly to your last post, so I'll do it here!]
    
    There is no magic bullet when it comes to community engagement. One thing that helps us is that we've been at it for quite a while. Like any creative practice, you have to actually practice it to get better at it. In this kind of work, the more you practice it, the more people know about it. People have to trust your intentions, so you have to be really good at communicating them to a lot of different kinds of people. It's taken 4+ years, but we now have an network of people interested in our programs that's over 3,000 strong and always growing.
    
    You're absolutely right that creating authentic partnerships is so so important. As we begin to experiment with our Give & Take program in new neighborhoods and cities around Minnesota, the first thing we do is try to find a partner on the project that is as excited about creating connected communities as we are. It's actually become one of our "simple rules" that we don't do a project if we can't find a community based partner for it.
    
    One more thing about Give & Take and why I think it's been successful so far: it's an asset-based open platform for people to fill up with all kinds of potential points of connection. You never know what's going to happen, but people always bring their best creative-selves to the night, and it's always an awesome time filled with laughter and humility. Community engagement shouldn't feel like taking your vitamins. It needs to be entertaining, and what better source for entertainment is there than ourselves?
    
    There's so much more to say, but I'll end with this: You can still be experimental, quirky, and fun - in fact, the world desperately NEEDS "experimental, quirky, and fun" right now - but you have to be able to tell people "This is an experiment! And you know what... it might not work!" If people trust you, they will absolutely join you on the adventure.
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      Aug 2 2011: Thanks for your thoughts Colin, So much here to muse on... Trust. There's a thing.
      Anyway, I will definitely be keeping an eye on your projects, hope it goes from strength to strength!
    - Annabeth Orton
      
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      Aug 2 2011: I'm back! I've been thinking about that trust thing again, it reminded me of Jane Jacobs reflections on 'casual public trust' in The Death and Life of Great American Cities; The Failure of Town Planning (1964). If you're not already familiar with that text I would definitely recommend it... It seems to me that opportunities to exercise trust are becoming increasingly eroded. I think that's become a key function that projects such as these can perform; restoring some of that. It's a really important thing to raise and essential for anyone working in this area to be aware of... Anyway. Just thought I'd chuck that back at you :)
- Luigi Vampa
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  Aug 1 2011: Shannai extraordinary work I see in your site. The power of community is unavodable when all decided to do something positive. We start the WBW (Worl Bike Web) if you want to share this idea with your associates?
  
  Ciberbiking is a very strange thing but its possible because e all bike and share the effects in our places. Rome is a very special city to do this but in my little neighborhood some transform slow and positive. The people walk but decided to use the bike for some trips. Im not designer Im researcher in the Vaticasn Archives but our designers friends from Domus and Ferrari start a new design for an urban tricycle.

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