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Any Talk (or other materials) you would recommend on bullies in the workplace?

We spend a significant amount of time at work, with people we most often haven't selected. Some you bond with (and effectively co-laborate), some you ignore (or simply have no business with), and amongst the others there are bullies... Is there any Talk (or high quality materials available online) you would recommend on the subject?

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    Jul 13 2011: I know this problem too well. Experiencing it non-directly realtime.

    There are many kinds of bully. Going public only works for blullies that rely on their physical or status superiority. At work, most bullies are the high achiever. They are bullies because they realize they are not expendable. Some sort of mutation from God Complex. Often rooted cause they are sick and tired of "cleaning up people's mess" (in their perspective - poor sense of team work) and they retaliate.
    There's a whole topic about this is HR domain called "toxic employee" Google it.

    Meanwhile, I'll share you something far more valuable... a possible cure :
    http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html
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    Jul 12 2011: Most bullies will cringe if you "go public". The scorn of the moral majority has some merit when dealing with these sorts of people.
    • Jul 12 2011: Scott, thanks for your reply. I believe this may well depend on organizational and possibly location-specific culture, but before all, it depends very much on the bullied ability to "go public"... After all, he/she takes the risk of being further mocked or bullied... at least there is a high likelihood the bullied perceives it that way! Thanks again for contributing.