Can we can say that our heart is designed to love and our love is designed to make other hearts loved and happy?
On the other hand, can we also say that our heart is designed to be loved and be happy?
When our heart is used other than to love, we have problems (we hate).
When our love is used other than to make other hearts happy, we have problems (we love with conditions, we are buying our love, love is transactional - there is no real love).
When our heart is unloved and unhappy, we have problems. (we don't want to be sad, we buy our happiness)
When we stop loving altogether, we have big problems (we don't care, we are selfish).
When our heart and our love is misused, we are not happy and it brings out our weaknesses - we can lie, we can steal and we can kill.
So is the key then is to give our love without conditions and make other hearts happy. And when the other heart is loved and happy, the love will be returned as well?