- Todd Ernst
- Grand Rapids, MI
- United States
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Dad, why are there so many black people in Detroit?
Last summer my 8-year-old son Gavan and I were in Detroit for a Detroit Lions youth football camp; we stayed downtown and while on the way to Ford Field my son asked me what I have come to call ‘the question’.
“Dad, why are there so many black people in Detroit?”
To provide some context to the question… my son didn’t ask it with any pre-determined notion or tone in his voice, rather he asked it much like a pending 3rd grader might ask why is the sky blue or why is the sun yellow.
While I thought I knew where to go with the question, I decided it was more important to provide Gavan with an answer that was not only right; but responsible and respectful as well.
My initial response was “Gavan, while I think I know the answer, this is not something I want to get wrong, so when we get home why don’t we call Papa and see what he has to say about your question.”
Gavan’s Grandpa has been a teacher for as long as I can remember and is one of the smartest people I know, in the following week we talked candidly about the question, and the dialogue left me with a far greater understanding of something I felt I should have known more about.
I also decided to push this question to 3 African American men within our community that I respect and trust; all 3 gave me some of the most insightful and honest answers I could have ever hoped for, and to be perfectly frank there was a part of me that sensed they enjoyed having the opportunity for what was a pretty cool conversation and an amazing exercise in American history.
So why am I writing this note and putting myself out in the open to be potentially be flogged publically? I have to submit an application essay for a fellowship grant to continue my graduate work; and I have decided I would like to crowd-source ‘the question’ to gain a broader sense of opinion, as often times some of the best answers are from where you least expect them.
Thanks for reading and I look forward to the dialogue from the TED community!