- June Kim
- Chengdu Sichuan
Can you control who you can fall in love with?
Some say that you fall in love cannot be controlled it is an instinct. However, others believe that through time and effort love can be possible such as in arranged marriages. Through time the people can fall in love. Is this true? or is love an instinct? and you cannot control who you love.So is love earned? What is the difference between love and lust? How can you see the difference if you cannot control who you love? Additionally is it possible that an individual can force themselves to not love a person?Why or Why not? Which side to stand on?