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Singer Songwriter & Vocal Coach, Lizanne Hennessey - Voice Coach

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Is it better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all?

I think the question is self-explanatory, and am curious what your own answer is on this age-old dilemma! Personal anecdotes are purely optional.

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    Jan 3 2014: What's your thoughts on this?

    I know that in hindsight I'm glad for having loved and lost, it's given me so much. But it takes time to get over the loss, something that often makes it feel that it wasn't worth it when you're in the middle of grieving over the loss.
    • Jan 5 2014: You hit the nail on the head, Jimmy.
      I am indeed experiencing grief, even regret, but am able to discern a faint silver lining again after some very dark months.
      The pain is part of the process, but I have never felt more alive than now.

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