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What do you plan for your New Years Resolutions, and how do you plan to make them become your reality in 2014?

While blogging recently on this topic, I came across a cartoon, of two dogs sitting side by side discussing New Years resolutions.
First Dog: What is a New Years Resolution?
Second Dog: Sort of like a TO DO list for the first week of January, next year!

New Years Resolutions are apparently held in quite low regard, yet they hold such promise. They are the plans we make for the coming year. I looked up the statistics for the success of New Years Resolutions and found that only 8% of people who set them succeed, 24% NEVER succeed, 49% make a start but fail when obstacles get in the way.

These are VERY similar statistics to regular goalsetting.

My question is, what do you do, to make yourself one of the 8% that succeed with their New Years Resolutions?

My strategy is this: I have regular goals set out, written and planned, all year, regardless of the date. However, towards the end of each month and especially at the end of the year, we have a review session where we look at our progress on the goals in play, and the goals we plan for the coming year. At that point, we decide on our priorities and where our focus should be for the coming year.

This becomes our New Years Resolution list. Perhaps not as sexy as the scroll of paper some folks bring out on New Years Eve to spill champagne on, but it works for us.

I guess a better name for New Years Resolutions would be "Next Years Plans, Goals and Dreams".

What do you think? I blogged about it here http://lifechange90.wordpress.com/, but it has only raised more questions!

Please tell me, how do you plan to make your New Years Resolutions become a reality for you in 2014?

Do you have a system, or a strategy in place already?

Do you have any ideas what your resolutions will be yet? If not, when do you write them?

The research I did for my blog only seemed to point to an area of global disaster, but the concept of renewal at such an auspicious time of year is so powerful! How can we make this work?


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  • Dec 9 2013: Thanks for your input Julio - great idea! In this modern world, we take so many things for granted and many of them are really just baggage! Please keep me posted on how it goes, I love this idea!

    How are you going to maintain your commitment to the plan? Any ideas on that yet? Do you have a program to keep you on track with it?


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      Dec 9 2013: I've found that journaling about it, whether is in a blog or privately, usually helps. When I write often about the progress on a subject, I find myself investing a great deal of additional effort just to have something to "report" or at least to avoid the acceptance of failure.

      To consciously acept that you have failed, even to yourself, is hard and therefore you are more willing to work harder in your resolution. Otherwise, when things get rough you can just forget about it until next year.

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