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Too much self-confidence?

I appreciate freedom and self-confidence for what they are but it seems that in this present day, there is a perpetuation of doing wrong things.

It's hard to say that, me as an individual without any skill in that area, can judge something that someone else probably loves.
How do you reason with someone else's dream/wants before they exist as a product that will somehow effect another human being (negatively)?

Here are a list of realistic scenarios:
1) The insane amount of new TV shows and constant stream of new mainstream movies. There are way too many actors that want to stay and new ones coming in. The movies are also lacking new ideas. Where does it stop?

2) Job vs. quality. Whether it's renovating a house or doing a design project, people are self confident in following instructions but are not doing it for the outcome.

3) People who develop arrogant and adamant dispositions. Such as in politics and leaders of corporations.

There are always talks on being more self-confident, but not many on responsibility of this trait.


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    Oct 11 2013: Check out the Kathryn Shulz talk on being wrong or the Brene Brown on vulnerability.
    • Oct 15 2013: These were great mind-opening talks. I'm a film lover so I've already had a sneak peek on what vulnerability means. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" has a line, "We accept the love we think we deserve." But it doesn't just stop there, "we are where we think we deserve to be" is just so fitting to describe people in general.

      But I think it is all too true the two levels idiotic and evil exist within this world. There's not much to do about them. There's a very rare chance that anyone could convince them of anything. Where does it end though? You can't convince that one person, they will start a family, teach the family his beliefs of being adamant and the cycle starts again. It's a "for every good, there will always be a bad" sort of thing.

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