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Too much self-confidence?

I appreciate freedom and self-confidence for what they are but it seems that in this present day, there is a perpetuation of doing wrong things.

It's hard to say that, me as an individual without any skill in that area, can judge something that someone else probably loves.
How do you reason with someone else's dream/wants before they exist as a product that will somehow effect another human being (negatively)?

Here are a list of realistic scenarios:
1) The insane amount of new TV shows and constant stream of new mainstream movies. There are way too many actors that want to stay and new ones coming in. The movies are also lacking new ideas. Where does it stop?

2) Job vs. quality. Whether it's renovating a house or doing a design project, people are self confident in following instructions but are not doing it for the outcome.

3) People who develop arrogant and adamant dispositions. Such as in politics and leaders of corporations.

There are always talks on being more self-confident, but not many on responsibility of this trait.


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  • Oct 11 2013: One knows they have too much self-confidence when they get into certain messes. Think of the ending to Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid.
    • Oct 11 2013: I have yet to watch that movie. It's on my IMDB Watchlist heh. The messes that aren't considered messes by the majority are what I fear for. Big messes, like the government shutdown and such, are covered by our beliefs and media and must be resolved anyways.
      • Oct 12 2013: Two guys drew their pistols and rushed out of a shack for a gunfight with 100's of soldiers they didn't realize were outside the shack. What a way to end the movie. No shooting It just ends, and we already knew both men were killed.

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