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John Buckley

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It happens in everyday life - we just don't know it. And we don't usually question our own memory but we should.

I often see people argue when they both KNOW they are right but have two different recollections of 'facts'. I recall clearly watching a work colleague laugh at my email joke through my window. She argued it was in our previous office building. I check the old email and she was right! yet I had a clear memory of watching her laugh through the new window. How often does this happen and we have no 'proof' to go back and check so we just trust that our memory is exactly correct. We can go a long way in all our relationships by allowing the simple concept that maybe how I remember it was not exactly right. can we all try a little harder at that ? What do others think about applying Elizabeth's thoughts in our everyday lives?

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