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What did you do to find your dream and passion in life?

Currently I realized that I have no dream or passion in my life. Maybe that's why I felt lost, like I have no where to go, no destination at all.

When I was younger, I had passions and dreams. Like fashion, architecture, interior design, crafting, biology and so much more. I also dreamed to be a fashion designer, architecture, doctor and like lots other kids, be an astronaut.

But now, when I think of those (my old passions and dreams), its no longer give me the excitement feeling.

Maybe you guys can help me and maybe other people who still on their way to find their own dream and passion in their life.

Thanks :)

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    Oct 10 2013: Your passion is the reason you wake up in the morning, and just the thought of it can keep you up late with excitement. But not everyone knows exactly what his passion is right away. Don't worry -- whether you're looking for your passion to find a new career, or if you're looking to get completely immersed in a new hobby or activity, there are a number of things you can do to find your passion.

    Think about what you love to do. To find your passion, you should first take a look at your own life and see if you're already doing something that you love -- but just not doing it very often. Figuring out what you really love to do and channeling it in a productive way that turns it into a passion can help you explore your heart's desires. Here are some of the things you should ask yourself when you brainstorm what you love to do:

    What are my goals?
    If I could do one thing for the rest of my life, what would it be?
    What do I love to do?
    What would I do, even if I didn't get paid to do it?
    What makes me feel like nothing else exists?
    What activity makes me feel completely in my element?
    Think about what you've always dreamed of doing. This is different from making a list of all of the things that make you happy. Here, you'll have to write down all of those things you've always dreamed about, but haven't done because you don't have the time, the money, or because they're impractical or even slightly scary. Here are the questions you should ask yourself as you brainstorm what you've always dreamed of doing:

    What is the one thing I have always dreamed about, but never got to do?
    What did I want to do when I was a child?
    Do I have an impractical dream that I once abandoned?
    Is there something I've been afraid to try because it takes me out of my comfort zone?
    Is there something I've been wanting to do but haven't done because of financial fears?
    Is there something I've always wanted to do but haven't tried because I've been afraid I'd fail or just not be very good at it

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