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What are the difficulties of being an extrovert?

I am an introvert. And I have my own personal difficulties from being so. But I was curious to know what might be difficult for you extroverted people out there, because of your extroversion. Or what misconceptions there might be about extroversion. What are the pros and cons of extroversion?
And just so we're on the same page of what introversion and extroversion are, here's a couple videos on defining introversion and extroversion.
"Introvert vs. Extrovert Conversation"

"Introverts and Extroverts Have Different Brains"


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  • Oct 22 2013: I remember being very introvert. Then I started doing competition in breakdance while my friends supported me a lot in starting to express myself in dance. So after a lot of dancing and adjusting to being more active in expressing myself, my personality changed a lot.

    I see myself now using both the good and bad sides of being introvert and extrovert. But lately I feel I have become more extrovert. ( Depending on the situation ) When there is a cultural difference in the group and I am the only one of my culture, I return back into being the quiet observer.

    But I find a lot of confidence in being an extrovert. Especially in breaking the ice when tough situations happen and people need moral support.

    By exploring both the introvert and extrovert side of life, you get more aware of the different ways of communicating.

    So to answer your question. For me the difficulties of being an extrovert has been the responsibility I feel for helping people who have trouble with communicating. Which ended up becoming one of my best skills in life.

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