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Love is overrated.

You will never find your true love, there is no perfect relationship. Or is there?
Isn't love overrated? Isn't love just something people simply make up in their minds so they can have something to own? Something to get jealous about? Something to brag about? An excuse for poetry? Let's say love was real, that is was as pure & amazing as people make it out to be. If all of that were true, why do we cheat on the ones we so-called love? Why do we continue to hurt the ones we are 'suppose' to love. Should we just remain single for the rest of our lives? Or should we aim for other types of relationships? For example; open relationships, not monogamous relationships, communes, etc..

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    Sep 2 2013: You cannot think about love. You can only think of a "person" whom you love but that thought is not love. Gradually thought takes the place of love. so its varied depending on your understanding of love.
    I think the entire idea of love is misunderstood -
    When you love something and expect the same back, then it is not love, it becomes mere trade.
    People love something and feel bad if they don't get what is expected in return, in that case there is suffering of human mind .The person is becoming a slave because he is trying to possess something..but where there is suffering there is no love.The moment one wants something they are not free . Where there is love there is happiness and not suffering and most important there is freedom. That is why if you love anything just love it and not expect anything back.

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