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Love is overrated.

You will never find your true love, there is no perfect relationship. Or is there?
Isn't love overrated? Isn't love just something people simply make up in their minds so they can have something to own? Something to get jealous about? Something to brag about? An excuse for poetry? Let's say love was real, that is was as pure & amazing as people make it out to be. If all of that were true, why do we cheat on the ones we so-called love? Why do we continue to hurt the ones we are 'suppose' to love. Should we just remain single for the rest of our lives? Or should we aim for other types of relationships? For example; open relationships, not monogamous relationships, communes, etc..

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    Aug 25 2013: For me, love is an all or nothing thing. You either have it, misconceive it, or don't have it. Too many times love is mistaken for affections for people and things that reside in one's comfort zone. A love for all becomes a healthy acknowledgment of perceived enemies and respect for the pursuit of happiness.

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