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Love is overrated.

You will never find your true love, there is no perfect relationship. Or is there?
Isn't love overrated? Isn't love just something people simply make up in their minds so they can have something to own? Something to get jealous about? Something to brag about? An excuse for poetry? Let's say love was real, that is was as pure & amazing as people make it out to be. If all of that were true, why do we cheat on the ones we so-called love? Why do we continue to hurt the ones we are 'suppose' to love. Should we just remain single for the rest of our lives? Or should we aim for other types of relationships? For example; open relationships, not monogamous relationships, communes, etc..

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  • Aug 11 2013: The more I love the more I like to question myself:How much love can I understand in my life?I think love is a dynamic and meaningful theme in my life
    • Aug 13 2013: Ed, I think I understand what you mean.
      When I had my 2nd child, I remember feeling pure love for both him, and my daughter, and my husband, all simultaneously, so much I didn't realize I was capable of feeling! It is dynamic, it is a roller-coaster of a thing. It's as if it has tides, it's organic, it's raw and primal.
      • Aug 14 2013: Hi Dear Lizanne Hennessey.I think it is amazing to be aware of love is there.When I wasn't aware of it,I think totally because I am still not in the quality to feel it.I think if I take love as a grant,it is totally my fault to ignore the most pleasure in my life.

        So true love comes from inner quality to enjoy,to treasure,it is from inner to outside...
        • Aug 14 2013: I couldn't agree more - when love is given and received unconditionally, it is the most precious thing anyone can feel.
      • Aug 14 2013: Sincerely hope the love can spread like a seed around every corner in the world:).

        Enjoy Dear Lizanne Hennessey:)

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