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How should one find his/her passion?

Hello TED members,
I have a question in mind. How to filter my interests to find my passion?
As a child, I have always been interested in almost everything. I am good at a lot of activities and love doing all of them. I have many interests, i am great at all of them, and am passionate about all. It bothers me a lot because then i can't really choose a profession which i would like for certain.
To start with, i love playing guitar. I can literally play guitar all day, i love writing and reading novels, i love physics and maths, i love basketball, i love delivering speeches, i love technology and computer science, i love meeting new people and striking challenging conversations with them (debates), i love economics, i love english and i love tennis and swimming and acting.
If anyone asks me to, i can do any of these things, for a long long time without getting bored...
This is ridiculously annoying cause even after my best efforts, i tend to love many things and can't focus at excellence in one. Its like im a jack of all trades, master of none. This annoys me and i can't choose a profession. I am in grade 10, and i know its too early. But i just like almost everything i start with. I have developed hate for some things and i start to hate things just as easy as i start to love them. Next thing you know, im out there spending my days learning how to play the saxophone. =.=

So please, guide me for i am befuddled.
Thank you for your precious time and would appreciate active participation for i really need guidance.


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    Aug 30 2013: For me, it's always been clear. I didn't come from a musical family, but the moment I sat down with a bass guitar, that was the end for everything else. Writing has always been there, as well.
    First of all, it's ok to have a breadth of talents and interests; that's not unlike me... I couldn't settle on a major in college because of it, in fact. I consider myself lucky that I had my passions figured out for me. I have a lot of interests in many areas, but at the end of the day, the things that make my heart resonate the most fully are writing, music and sharing meaningful conversations with people I care about. To discover passion, I believe the most effect method is to take your self completely out of the picture. The times when I am absolutely at my peak in musical performance is when I have no concept of "me," the music IS me, and it just flows right out. This is a lot easier said than done, but it's that feeling of complete surrender, trust and gratitude that's experienced when you're doing something.
    Being preceeds doing, however, so to get in touch with your purpose, a certain amount of diving into your own person is necessary. My first book was my experience of doing just that.
    Argh... This is jumbled a bit, but I have to run. I hope it helps! Feel free to e-mail me anytime. I'd love to help in any way I possibly can.

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