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Mohammad Mohammadipour

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Do you believe in one love of your life?

Is there really only one love of your life?
is there really such a thing as finding 'the one'?
Is there really just one special, magical, perfect soul mate? Or do we perhaps get a few kicks at the old soul mate can?

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    Aug 18 2013: Hello Mohammad:>)
    I suspect this question is like many other questions we have about the life experience, in that it depends on what an individuals perception/belief is?

    If we are open to the possibility of more than one love or soul mate, that may be what we create and/or attract in our life. If we believe that there is only one love/soul mate, there will be no room in our heart and mind for another. I prefer to be open to possibilities:>)
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      Aug 18 2013: Hi Colleen
      I hope you are fine..

      "I suspect this question is like many other questions we have about the life experience, in that it depends on what an individuals perception/belief is?"

      yes it is, you know that i like to challange common sense..concerning my nowadays life this question come up, is it really good to be in a relationship...?..in some cultures, like Iran people are really stric about one love of their life who is their wife, or husband,,and clearly society support that...and it works,,,but living abroad got me to this conclusion that i don't feel good when i am in a relationship...and the more i spend time with absolute strangers the more i enjoy...

      "If we are open to the possibility of more than one love or soul mate, that may be what we create and/or attract in our life. If we believe that there is only one love/soul mate, there will be no room in our heart and mind for another. I prefer to be open to possibilities"

      I think love is a kind of sickness....the reason why i usually feel pain when i am in love..
      a conscious relationship....spending time with absolute strangers....kissing beautiful people that you don't know at all...is the best form of relationship to me...
      warm regards
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        Aug 18 2013: Hi Mohammad:>)

        I am fine....thank you.....and I hope the same for you my friend. I am aware that you like to challenge and explore Mohammad, and I admire that in you:>)

        Perhaps you do not feel good in relationship because you have not met the person with whom you feel good, and perhaps you are not meant to be in one relationship. Based on our conversations, it feels like I know enough about you to know that you have good intuition and a logical mind, so you KNOW about yourself and can make good choices by considering all information.

        I do not agree that love is a sickness, and I DO agree that it can be challenging at times. Be careful going around kissing strangers my friend! LOL:>)

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