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Gay Marriage Rights

Obviously this is an extremely significant issue that has become a daily topic in many households. I am pretty young, starting high school next fall, and I have always been curious to listen to people's opinions on the topic of Gay Marriage, because it is an important part of my life.

I am a triplet, with a sister and a brother, and I suppose one could say I have a unique lifestyle. My siblings and I have been raised in two households our entire lives, the reason being that we have four parents. All of them are gay, meaning my mom's live together, and my dad's live together.

Both of my biological parents are in law enforcement, while my other dad and mom are stay-at-home parents. My mom's have been together for 20 years, and my dad's have been together for 19. We live in California, but my parents live 100 miles apart, with one house being located by the beach, and the other in the countryside. My dad's raise all kinds of animals, and they always teach us important values, along with my mom's as well.

My mom's got married a few years back, when gay marriage was okay in California for that short period of time. My dad's have not gotten married, but with the new laws, they are engaged now and hope to be married as soon as possible.

One of my dads is from Mexico, and he has been here for about 25 years. He is not a citizen, and now that he can get married to the person he loves, he will finally be recognized in the country he loves. My parents have always taught me to accept everyone, and I find it easy to get along with many different varieties of people.

I am starting this debate mainly because I am aware of the religious standpoints, and want to hear more about others outlooks and perspectives on gay marriage, and equality. I am open to all opinions and would like to hear all and every reason as to why you feel that way.


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  • Jul 3 2013: You have an unusual situation... What will gay marriage do to the world? I seriously doubt it would turn the whole world gay and make humans extinct. Is it evil and should be avoided at all cost? - probably a lot more people died of drinking alcohol and alcohol isn't evil. I don't know what the fuss about gay marriage is about.. some people push the issue into "incestous marriage", human extinction, Punishment from heaven, turning the entire world gay,.. yadda yadda..
    Its just binding two people together and recognizing that bind.
    Anyway, what matters is you have parents that will take care of you and love you. Gay or not it is what matters for human society.
    • Jul 4 2013: Every time I hear something like "God hates gay people" I think it is ridiculous. If two people love each other, then they have the right to be married and have the same benefits as anyone else. Its all the same love, and the way a person is shouldn't bother others, considering the fact that it probably doesn't affect them personally. Thank you for your opinion, I am glad that someone has similar thoughts to what I believe.
      • Jul 4 2013: People sometimes have a funny way of putting their thoughts into God's word.. For the most part, religion is mostly human ideas.. They read a few lines from the bible and think they know everything and preach everything. Sometimes I do wonder what does God really think about all this...

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